Every few years, it happens.
The orders come in — a new base, a new city, a new chapter.
You’ve just finished painting the kids’ rooms, memorized the local grocery layout, and started calling your neighbors by name. And just like that, it’s time to pack it all up. Again.
This is the rhythm of life for military families. It’s built into the fabric of service. But just because it’s common doesn’t make it easy — especially when it comes to one of the biggest challenges: relocating your home.
Whether you’re gearing up for your first PCS (Permanent Change of Station) or you’ve got a dozen under your belt, each move brings a unique wave of logistics, emotions, and financial decisions. This post is here to help you navigate it all with a little more clarity, confidence, and calm.
The Unique Challenges of a Military Move
Military families move roughly every 2-3 years. That’s a pace few civilian families can imagine. And with each move comes a blend of high-stakes decisions under tight timelines — often in unfamiliar cities with little lead time.
Here are some of the most common stressors:
- Short Notice Orders: You may only have weeks to research, plan, and move.
- Limited Housing Inventory Near Bases: Especially in popular or high-demand locations.
- Financial Pressure: Even with DLA (Dislocation Allowance), out-of-pocket expenses add up quickly.
- Disruption to Family Life: New schools, new jobs for spouses, new social circles for everyone.
- VA Loan Confusion: Not every seller understands or is comfortable with VA loans — which can limit your options.
It’s a lot. And it’s okay to feel overwhelmed. But there are ways to make it easier.
Tips to Make Your Military Relocation Smoother
✅ Start Early — Even If You Don’t Have All the Details
As soon as you hear a move is coming, start researching the area. Join Facebook groups specific to the base or city. Check MilitaryByOwner, AHRN, or local military spouse forums. The sooner you plug into the local network, the better your options.
✅ Find a Military-Savvy Real Estate Agent
Ask if they’re a Military Relocation Professional (MRP) or have experience with PCS moves. These agents know the tight deadlines, understand VA loan nuances, and can help you move quickly when time is short.
✅ Ask the Right Questions
When house hunting, look beyond the square footage. Ask about:
- School districts and transfer policies
- Commute time to base
- Rental restrictions if you might need to lease it later
- Local HOA or zoning quirks
And don’t be shy about asking other military families what they wish they knew before moving there.
✅ Prep for Plan B
Even the best-laid PCS plans can hit a bump. Temporary housing might be necessary — especially if your household goods are delayed or your closing date shifts. Explore options like extended-stay hotels or short-term rentals. Some bases offer temporary lodging — book early if you can.
Lean on Your Community
Military life can feel isolating during a move, but you’re not alone. Family readiness centers, spouse support groups, and even online forums are full of people who’ve been where you are — and are ready to help.
Reach out. Ask questions. Accept the casseroles.
Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This
Every PCS brings change. It also brings opportunity — to explore a new place, meet new people, and make a home wherever the orders take you.
It’s okay to feel the stress. It’s okay to feel the grief of leaving a life behind. But remember this: you’re doing something extraordinary, not just for your country, but for your family. And you don’t have to do it alone, eXp Inservice has many specialized Military agents, if you would like help and advice reach out to a local agent or an agent in the new location, we’re here to help.